Please help me do this.
Please help me get through this.
Please help me get through this.





Food (1) Hokkien Mee - apparently not one of the best food stall for it
Food (2) Char Kuay Teow - DELICIOUS but it'll never be my fav
Food (3) Yam Cake - at least I tried...don't know why I thought I heard them say fish
Food (4) Otah ?soft, juicy and different from Singapore's
Food (5) Buan Jian Quey (2 different types) - love the one with black sugar
Food (6) Penang Laksa (Assam style) - LOVE!
Food (7) Penang Laksa (Sweeter style) - LOVE IT TOO!
Food (8) Passembur - it's alright but not a favourite


Food (9) Fruit Rojak - I LOVE FRUITS, so sweet so juicy!
Food (10) Fruit Ice Kachang - amazingly sweet mango!
Food (11) Homemade Moon Cake - Eating is also a form of rest!
Food (12) Fried Lalas - it wasn't the highlight, just to keep the mouth busy while waiting for...
Food (13) Grilled Female Crabs - I've never had it this style (YUM) and the female crabs had so much eggs!! I learnt to eat crab eggs that day.

Food (14) BBQ Cuttlefish - nice and crispy!
Food (15) Muah Ji - not much of a starchy chinese dessert person
Food (16) Soft Apong with banana - love bananas!
Food (17) Crispy Apong - DELICIOUS! Almost like loveletters!
Food (18) Bak Kut Teh - Beautiful!
No food involved
No food involved

No food involved
Food (19) Baked cheese noodles - I managed to eat a little of it. Too cheezy but edible.
Food (20) Ice cream on chinese egg waffle (aka kuay bulu) - YUM YUM YUM!
Food (21) Chocolate fondue with ice cream, cakes and assorted fruits - DROOL!

Food (22) Fried Egg Oyster - bought from the food stall opposite their apartment.
Food (23) Steamed fish drenched in tomato sauce - it tastes just like how mama cooks it.
Food (24) Brocolli with mushrooms - nice and healthy for a change.
Food (25) Steam egg with prawns - another nice, healthy and delicious dish.
Food (26) Chicken Soup - another dish very much like how mama cooks it.
So for example, when I get to LK Bennett, I'm incredibly focused and direct. As I walk in, a pair of red boots with high heels catches my eye - but I quickly look away, and head straight for the display of sandals. This is how I shop these days: no pausing, no gorgeous new range of sequined pumps over there. I simply go straight to the sandals I want, take them from the rack and say to the assistant,
'I'd like to have these in a six, please.'
Direct, and to the point. Just buy what you need and nothing else. This is the key to controlled shopping. I'm not even going to glance at those cool pink stilettos, even though they'd match my new Jigsaw cardigan perfectly.
Nor those slingbacks with the glittery heels.
They are nice though, aren't they? I wonder what they'd look like on.
Oh God. This is really hard.
What is it about shoes? I mean, I like most kinds of clothes, but a fabulous pair of shoes can just reduce me to jelly. Sometimes, when no-one else is at home, I open my wardrobe and just stare at all my pairs of shoes, like some mad collector. And once, I lined them all up on my bed and took a photograph of them. Which might seem a bit weird - but I thought, I've got loads of photos of people I don't really like, so why not take one of something I love?
'Here you are!'
Thank goodness, the assistant is back with my lilac sandals in a box - and as I see them, my heart gives a little leap. Oh, these are gorgeous. Gorgeous. All delicate and strappy, with a tiny little blackberry by the toe. I fell in love with them as soon as I saw them. They're a bit expensive - but then, everyone knows you should never skimp on shoes, because you'll hurt your feet.
I slip my feet into them with a frisson of delight - and oh God, they're fantastic. My feet suddenly look elegant, and my legs look longer...and OK, it's a tiny bit difficult to walk in them, but that's probably because the shop floor is slippery.
'I'll take them, please,' I say, and beam happily at the assistant.
You see, this is the reward for taking such a controlled approach to shopping. When you buy something, you really feel as though you've earned it.
We head towards the checkout, and I keep my eyes carefully away from the rack of accessories. In fact, I barely even notice that purple bag with the jet beading. And I'm just reaching into my bag for my purse, congratulating myself on being so single-minded, when the assistant says conversationally, 'You know, we've got these sandals in clementine, as well.'
Clementine?
'Oh...right,' I say after a pause.
I'm not interested. I've got what I came in to buy - and that's the end of the story. Lilac sandals. Not clementine ones.
'They've just come in,' she adds, rooting around on the floor. 'I think they're going to be even more popular than the lilac.'
'Really?' I say, trying to sound as indifferent as I can. 'Well, I'll just take these, I think...'
'Here it is!' she exclaims. 'I knew there was one around here somewhere.'
And I freeze, as she puts the most exquisite sandal I've ever seen onto the counter. It's a pale, creamy orange colour, with the same strappy shape as the lilac one - but instead of the blackberry, there's a tiny clementine by the toe.
It's instant love. I can't move my eyes away.
'Would you like to try it?' says the girl, and I feel a lurch of desire, right to the put of my stomach.
Just look at it. It's delicious. It's the most darling shoe I've ever seen. Oh God.
But I don't need a pair of clementine shoes, do I? I don't need them.
Come on, Becky. Just. Say. No.
'Actually...' I swallow hard, trying to get control of my voice. 'Actually...' God, I can hardly say it. 'I'll just take the lilac ones today,' I manage eventually. 'Thank you.'


| Friday | Saturday | |
|---|---|---|
| Start Time | 7.30pm | 5pm |
| Reason for outing | - To destress | - To meet up |
| First lot of friends | Pear, Junren and Zeyun | Derek and Locy |
| First activity for the evening | Dinner at Alexandra Village | Drinks at Pan Pacific Hotel lobby bar |
| Language | English | English |
| Conversation topics | The stressful week, working worries, our busy days | Sydney, friends of theirs, business |
| Second lot of friends | Pear, Junren and Zeyun | Derek and Zhiyong |
| Second activity for the night | Drinks at Villa Bali - happy hour 1 for 1 drinks | Dinner at Pepper Lunch - to eat for the sake of eating |
| Language | English | English and Mandarin |
| Conversation topics | Work, life, friends, latest life updates | Immediate plans on what to do next, where to go, about speaking mandarin |
| Third lot of friends | Pear | Derek, Zhiyong, Ginger, Leslie, Alloi and Dexter |
| Third activity for the night | Sleep-over at Pear's place | Dao Huey at Rocher |
| Language | English | Mandarin and Hokkien |
| Conversation topics | Girl stuff, guys, the future | Unknown last gathering, drunk stories, a lot of inside jokes |
| Fourth lot of friends | Derek, Zhiyong, Ginger, Leslie, Alloi and Felicia | |
| Fourth activity for the night | Coffee or Tea at an Arabic cafe | |
| Language | Mandarin and Hokkien | |
| Conversation topics | A lot of jokes and forgettable talk (i.e. Crap) | |
| Relationship with friends | Close to very close | Only one close, the rest are all acquaintances |
| Conversation input throughout the night | From average to a lot | From average to a lot less than average |
| Alcohol Guage | From sober to tipsy and high | From a little tipsy to sober |
| End time | 1+am | 1+am |